It gets better
I seem to be slowly coming out of whatever hole I had fallen in after ending my most recent romantic relationship. I can see the light at the end of the tunnel – and it actually seems to be moving … » » » »
Tag Archives: relationships
Thriving after Trauma
As part of my healing journey, I have decided to find women who have transformed their experience of trauma in relationship(s) into a thriving life. I am doing this in part because I want some inspiration, I want to know … » » » »
Been There. Done it Again.
I am slowly accepting that I have done it again: I ended up in an unhealthy relationship. The third one. And maybe resisting admitting this was part of what kept me hooked (after all, I had my suspicions). I didn’t … » » » »
Unexpected Triggers
No wonder that I hadn’t slept well! No wonder I had diarrhea! As soon as I walked down the corridor in the court house it all became clear. It wasn’t because I find the justice system troubling. It wasn’t even … » » » »
Wounds and Relationships
This post has been brewing for months. My intention is to face a challenge, well, actually two challenges: Admitting to a change in my life and capturing my deepening understanding about how we relate – and avoid relating – without … » » » »
Mirror, mirror on the Wall
I believe we need a mirror to fully know our worthiness. While we can increase our sense of self-worth to completely feel secure, our worthiness of love, belonging, and acceptance needs to be mirrored. In our culture, we are told … » » » »
It’s Natural!
My belly dance teacher Carolena Nericcio-Bohlman and I had an interesting conversation the other day about next steps for me in my learning process. In the course of that conversation, Carolena pointed out that I seem to have the tendency … » » » »